Responsibilities Role in Life

Ever heard the saying, "you reap what you sow"? It’s a simple idea, but one that highlights the role responsibility has played in my life. I don't think anyone is perfect, and I find comfort in knowing that no one dwells on my imperfections as much as I do. Maybe for some people they have a natural sense of direction, or an incredible strong support system guiding them through life. But for me… there have been so many lessons I've learned through trial and error, and the reality is that's not a maintained path.

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I know a lot of people who have set goals based on what they think others want. This characteristic extends to many liberties: like the music we enjoy, the way we dress, or how we serve our community. Peers have a HUGE effect on how we see ourselves and what we strive to become. But at the end of the day, we’re responsible for our actions on an individual level, regardless of the people we surround ourselves with. There have been times in my life when I reflected on past decisions and realized I needed to change my behavior.

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For instance, I once went along with jokes simply because my friends found them funny, or participated in unhealthy habits because my peers did. Yet, each time, I had to ask myself if these behaviors reflected the person I wanted to become. Owning up to my actions, and recognizing where they fell short of my own standards, was a necessary step toward aligning with my values.

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It’s never easy to admit when you've fallen short. Recognizing your responsibility in shaping your life can feel heavy, especially when you’re not happy with the reflection in the mirror. But owning these moments can be transformative. Some of my greatest life lessons have come from my most egregious human experiences. When confronting past mistakes, there's no room for ego, excuses, or distractions. It's painful, and it demands complete ownership in turn for growth.

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You can’t control how others treat you or what they decide to pursue, but you are responsible for how you respond. If you’re not committed to representing yourself in a way that aligns with your values, you'll be choosing to live by someone else's. Only you know what you want out of life. You’re responsible for shaping your habits, setting your goals, and choosing your community. In the end, "you reap what you sow."

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Warmly,

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Seanie B